How to be confidence?

Have you guys ever wondered, how did all those successful people always gain their confidence? Did they overcome any hardships in their life as you guys did?

There are some people, who always asking me, how to be a confident person?

"Hi, how enough did you belief in yourself to be self-confident? Sometimes I feel my self feel in so much doubt just to feel confident." - anonymous

So guys, today I will covered a topic about self-confidence. So now, let me ask you first, Are You a Self-Confident?

“The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”  ― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

Okay, right now, I want you guys to relax, sit back, and think for the next minute, think about how you guys see yourself right now. For the whole, how much self-confidence that you think you have in yourself? How confident do you feel when you are with your friend? How about when you are with your family? Perhaps, strangers? How about with other things? Such as when you are in a situation where you have to do a presentation in front of many crowds? Do you feel fully confident in all of the above situations? Do you feel confident enough in regardless of the situation you are in?

Spread your wings!

What is Self-Confidence?

Self-Confidence means to be secure in yourself  and your abilities. When you are giving a presentation or a speech, it helps to be self-confident -- or at least to pretend that you are.

Confidence itself means a feeling of trust in someone or something. Self-confidence is often related with having some knowledge, skill sets, and abilities, whether acquired or innate. Someone who is with absolutely no competency in something can still be confident.

Do you know someone, or yourself have a low confidence level? Perhaps, you have experience this things in your life? ;

• you undervaluing on what you are capable of
• you take the blame even though it is not your fault at all
• you being overly shy and reserved
• having a fearful attitude towards most things
• you do something, just to please others

Have you guys every experienced all the things that I have stated above? Do you know that someone who is with low self-confidence, they tend to repel with people around them. Their limiting mindsets and their behavior make them feel so 'heavy' and hard to be around with strangers and others. If we refer to the Map of Consciousness, these types of people who vibrate in consciousness levels of Pride and below are usually levels of SHAME, GUILT, APATHY and FEAR.

Imagine that, you are in a situation where you need to present your task in front of your boss. Say that you are lack of confidence and you predict that you will not meet your boss expectations. What do you think will happen next? This lack of belief in yourself will influence your thoughts and action, both consciously and subconsciously. When you are too constantly thinking about a negative outcome you might get, it will takes your own focus off what you should be doing in order to achieve your ideal state, which it will leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy.

So here's a video that might help you to believe in yourself and to overcome your lack of confidence in your life. Hope, it helps everyone! Have a nice day ahead!

This video is about a motivational video to those who did not believe in their self, and this video might make you get your confidence back :)